Bumpy Road

As we go through life we are forced to overcome struggles to make ourselves stronger, yet how can we prepare for the bumpy road of dating. I have had my fair share of dates and unfortunately the dating game is going to continue until one day I find that person that appreciates me for all I am. Yet before we find that person that will make us happy and put a smile on our face, we have to overcome those that we went crazy over, bailed out of jail, lent money that would never be seen again, go out of our way for someone that doesn’t appreciate the gratitude, having a date make out with your friend in the back of your car while on the date.

At one point in time I resembled that typical crazy person that would call all the time or cyber stalk, but it seems through out the years I have realized there is no reason to waste my time and energy over something I have no control over. I have to credit one person for this strength, it was a bumpy and awful dating realm with this individual but I slowly realized I was not respecting myself by continuing to believe something magical may occur. I fooled myself for a year wondering if I could change them but instead I decided to embark on an emotional roller coaster. It was a rough time but fortunately I have slowly overcome it.

All these bad dating experiences have made me realize I am fortunate to have good friends in my life to pick me up when I fall, dust off all those nasty dirty dates, and willing to shit on someone’s car when they do me wrong. I realized I don’t need to be worried about looking crazy because my friends are just as crazy.

I dedicate this blog to all the single ladies and men, because we have all come across douche bags in our life but here is a hint, they don’t like to be called a douche keep it simple and call them an ass or a f&^&*%. Continue to be strong and don’t worry about what we can’t control, just be yourself and prince charming will eventually cross paths with you.